It's not everyday that I hear antiquated euphemisms like, "Golly day," "Gee whiz" and (my personal favorite) "Golly gee Moses" thrown around, but then again, it's not everyday that I play a Father-Daughter tennis tournament where half of the participants are in the over 50 age bracket. This past weekend was the 10 year anniversary of the first such tournament I've played with my dad and upon our fifth attempt (and several Golly Day's later), we finally captured a national title!
Perhaps more valuable than our big win, however, is the evolution of our relationship. Let me set the stage - my dad and I are intensely competitive and incredibly similar. Our understanding of one another bonds us in a unique way and we seldom argue, but on those rare occasions when we do, the sum of two stubborn personalities produces explosive disputes. So, imagine, if you will, how that eruption might play out on a tennis court, in the heat of battle...not pretty. Our particular brand of arguing might not catch the attention of the casual observer, but that's only because pride keeps us from making a scene. There is an initial confrontation, of course, but from there complete silence and non-verbal cues take over and can last until someone decides to apologize...I know, not very Christlike;) The worst of these arguments took place three years ago in our last tournament together when we disagreed over the correct way to give a high five, ha! We didn't speak until two days (and two matches) later. The whole family gets a kick out of that story now and for me, it's a reminder of how miraculously harmonious this year's tournament turned out to be!
We may have survived our matches without any major spats, but I sure loved watching everyone elses! There are four National Father/Daughter tournaments every year, and unless you have seen one of these family tournaments in action, you would never believe the shenanigans that take place. Bad line calls, daughters yelling at fathers, fathers yelling at daughters - you name it and it has probably happened. Friendly competition? Sometimes...but definitely not always.
In addition to seeing my family (the tournament is held close to home in FL), I also got to see some long lost friends. I was reunited with a former teammate who transferred to Duke after our sophomore year together. She and her father played in the tournament as well and we got lots of time to catch up. We had a great time reminiscing!

Dad and I got a picture together after pulling out a three set quarterfinal match against the #2 seed. The wind this weekend was ridiculous and I am notorious for failing to successfully handle that particular weather condition. I was steamed after we lost the first set of that match, not because I was playing poorly, but because I could not believe that after months of wind-free conditions in South Florida (according to Dad), I happened to be there during a particularly gusty resurgence. Curses!





Okay, I know this isn't the NCAA, but I had to throw up the #1!

Mom and me - yes, I know we look like sisters.

This day was topped off by the presence of a few great friends from my junior tennis days. Chelsea (on the left) played for College of Charleston and Danielle played for Minnesota.
It was so nice of them to stop by!

Last, but not least, my old coach stopped by! He worked with me through high school and into college...no small feat! Twelve years later, I think I have finally figured out the mental side of the game that he tried to explain to me so many year ago. Better late than never, I guess:)

So, there you have it. Happy Tuesday!





































